"The way you take everything apart and analyze it seems very strange to me. Doesn't all that analysis destroy poetry? Shouldn't it be spontaneous?"
You know how there are musicians often very good musicians who play only by ear, can't read music, and proudly announce that they've "never had a lesson"? This is what the question makes me think of. We can only wonder what sort of music Bach would have written if he had done it all spontaneously, without any formal training. It might have been splendid music, but it would have been very different.
I believe that the more poets know know consciously about what they're doing, the more likely they are to write splendid poems rather than just pleasant and adequate poems. I think that when they break the rules of language it's better if they know what rules they're breaking. And I think poetry is strong enough to survive careful analysis.
Every now and then the world is going to be blessed with someone for whom splendid poetry (or splendid music) just comes naturally, with no training needed. Most of us, however, will be better poets for having learned our craft.